Wednesday 14 May 2014

Fail Better!

Each evening after experiencing a bumper day I, my philosophical mother and my extremely realistic sister sit over discussions which start with A and end at Q; I bet you know how girls chatter, simply nowhere! One such warm evening we discussed what life was offering to all the 3 of us. One of the two uttered peace, the other said experience and I indicated opportunities. This debate continued until we reached failures, where we lacked and how we can turn things around. And that is how this chord hit; Let's fail better!

Fate got me reading to an awesome quote just a few days later to our discussion, expressed by some TV actor which said, "If some one questions your failure simply say, I did not fail, my success just postponed." There are such incredible times in life which smack so hard and make you realize that things are not yet over. This courageous quote refreshed my thoughts and got me back into action.

Each one of us somewhere, somehow is trying to achieve something. We take up challenges, we try, we either succeed or fail. Do we really fail? I don't think so! We don't fail; we just wrap up our next attempt and walk away probably looking for another target.
Failures can slap someone really tough. The deep impressions left by failures dishearten dreamers to desire. Why is that so? I figured out one of the reasons to this. The social circuit where we reside have profound influence on our actions and reactions. People might not appreciate a successful man but will definitely probe his defeat. The dishonorable dialogues, low looks, inglorious trials lead to a cracking sound in a man's heart which triggers his self-confidence. I believe self-belief should be only meal on the menu. If that erases, the survival is at risk.

Overlook what's been unnecessarily said, neglect the negativity and grab that one chance. Opportunities are not frequent visitors, they are in fact guests that too with gifts :D Let's give luck a chance, try until triggered and even after multiple efforts we fail, think of ways where we can fail better, because no one ever fails, it's just that their success postpones ;) High 5!