To Die For!

Honestly, I am not in the best of my moods today. Not that this day brought in only sadness but yes something ill! Never mind, bad times come to those who can take it and overcome :)
My little space aids letting things fade. So here I come to die for.

I am at a phase of the journey called life where I want to achieve 'something' so badly. I am sure many of us after pursuing higher education wanted to get to a point which decides the future; Can be anything a good job, luxury, a happy love life, pleasing package, an owned business, a great destination to reside, etc. This clarifies that each one of us definitely holds a bucket list, hopes and wakes up with a dream.We all have the willingness but the question is how far do we go to make it into reality? Is it to die for?

The good reads spell "Do what you love, Love what you do." Let's add die to do! (Caution: Do not reverse this statement..LOL) :D  I absolutely believe that until there ain't an urge, a belief, the willingness to turn dreams into reality, its not worth anything. Be 100% sure on what you plan to do even if the world has other plans for you. And then you will find your direction and commitment.

Work so hard that your works speaks for you, dream so big that the challenges seem smaller, love so deeply so that there is not much left to see in the world.
Let things take their own leisure time to happen. What matters is not doing great things but to do small things in great ways. I say life is not short instead is enough to become what you are suppose to. Choose a life to die for! High 5!

Fail Better!

Each evening after experiencing a bumper day I, my philosophical mother and my extremely realistic sister sit over discussions which start with A and end at Q; I bet you know how girls chatter, simply nowhere! One such warm evening we discussed what life was offering to all the 3 of us. One of the two uttered peace, the other said experience and I indicated opportunities. This debate continued until we reached failures, where we lacked and how we can turn things around. And that is how this chord hit; Let's fail better!

Fate got me reading to an awesome quote just a few days later to our discussion, expressed by some TV actor which said, "If some one questions your failure simply say, I did not fail, my success just postponed." There are such incredible times in life which smack so hard and make you realize that things are not yet over. This courageous quote refreshed my thoughts and got me back into action.

Each one of us somewhere, somehow is trying to achieve something. We take up challenges, we try, we either succeed or fail. Do we really fail? I don't think so! We don't fail; we just wrap up our next attempt and walk away probably looking for another target.
Failures can slap someone really tough. The deep impressions left by failures dishearten dreamers to desire. Why is that so? I figured out one of the reasons to this. The social circuit where we reside have profound influence on our actions and reactions. People might not appreciate a successful man but will definitely probe his defeat. The dishonorable dialogues, low looks, inglorious trials lead to a cracking sound in a man's heart which triggers his self-confidence. I believe self-belief should be only meal on the menu. If that erases, the survival is at risk.

Overlook what's been unnecessarily said, neglect the negativity and grab that one chance. Opportunities are not frequent visitors, they are in fact guests that too with gifts :D Let's give luck a chance, try until triggered and even after multiple efforts we fail, think of ways where we can fail better, because no one ever fails, it's just that their success postpones ;) High 5!

Why the Goodbye?

'It's the emptiest yet the fullest of all human messages- Good Bye.' Lately I have been bidding adieu to too many and I register how hard a task it is. This two lettered expression calls to mind those chapters which take you to all wistful as well as downhearted impressions spent; 'La vie en rose aussi avec des pauses.'

We, humans (Indians to be precise) are so affectionate, empathetic and take no time to build relationships; the strong, lasting ones. The theorem of  'oneness' that we are inculcated by our enduring families gets rid off the <detachable string> from our body and soul helping us originate bonds with benefits. People fit themselves in shoes, many a times overlooking the sizes. His/Her story grows to be mine in no time just because we choose to relate our titles. Funny, the Indian ideology!

These episodes anyways faint with time. Good byes let you have a look into the making of a relation, its sweet and spicy significance assisting you to design your upcoming sequence, while you record "Yes you morons, I will appear soon!"

My meaning of a good bye is to not end but to add an interval, everybody needs a break! Good bye simply implies that we now have inked few similar pages which can not be erased. Good bye awaits a fresh story to take place. With the belief to ink a new sheet with my beloved out there I say Good bye! High 5! :)

Womaniya!

The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me- YES, I AM A WOMAN!

After watching the 2 hours uninterrupted episode of 'Satya Meva Jayate', I have an energetic soul shouting from within to notify the world what it is to be a WOMAN. The shattering stories, the fatal facts and the shameful survival of those poor souls give nothing but rage, fear and distress. This cold-hearted society instead of lending a helping hand offers disrespect, humiliation and baggage full of ridiculous taunts.

A child when enters the age of comprehending surroundings, is taught to respect the society and what she gets in return is sexual assault, mental abuse and wrecked road decorated ahead to lead an unworthy and disgraceful life. Wow! Respect!
Someone rightly expressed, "The unhappiest people in this world are those who care the most about what other people think." People, we need to grow up! My opinion on this is one should not give a damn about someone else's comments. Too many will call you, its on you who you want to answer!

Well, If I begin to list down the problems, I might just not add a full stop. It's always good to talk about an answer, a solid solution. This universe's vicious circle is a blame game. If I am hurt it is because of someone, something. Let's just say I was not ready to protect my well-being.
I admire and appreciate women who are self proclaimed. Why do you need someone to shoulder your shoulder? You, woman out there are gifted with the ability to bear all odds; why not unwrap the gift and utilize it.

My idea behind sharing this message with all the WOW women is to not have power over men, but over themselves. Grab all the means which help you safeguard yourself, look out for roads which allow you to enjoy a non-bumpy ride, develop skills which help you lead a lavish, lump sum life. Don't go out there howling about your capabilities, prove it ! I am the best, forget the rest..I am a Woman! High 5! :)

The Indian Cinema!

No! I am not a critic by profession, just clarifying!
As soon as I stepped out of the cinema hall this evening I was so sure about dashing off my blog. 'The Indian Cinema' -that surprisingly abnormal way to entertain audiences.

I am not too much into watching movies, I only watch those which are highly talked about (I skipped Chennai Express though) and whose promos seem appealing. Movies create drama, action, suspense, thrill and humor in one's life. Some are full of brains and some absolutely empty-headed.
In these 2 days I encountered 2 such extremely observe flicks. A happy high Sunday on the 'Highway' and the mournful Monday with 'Shaadi Ke Side/Effects.'

After gazing the full of delight Randeep Hooda, just so petite Alia Bhatt and the musical genius A R Rahman who will not make way for Highway! The film takes you on a road trip! Randeep who was in his most anti-fashionable avatar, Alia so raw and unbleached with all the background score gave me goose bumps. The flamboyant acting skills, story line with perfectly stationed dialogues..oh my I still have the Highway hangover!

And then came 'Shaadi Ke Side/Effects.' When you have no plans to watch such vain and unproductive theater but your long lost crazy cousins find out ways to spend some more time together, I got no choice but to hit the box office. In the fully air conditioned hall I squeezed myself into cosy recliner on the grounds of hope of not falling asleep, stared at the big screen (Vidya Balan appeared bigger than the big screen). In the first half itself I had goose bumps (this time it was different). Like seriously? So predictable, such a claptrap and just so bizzare! I was tongue-tied.

I am unable to stomach movies having bad influence on people. The dreadful part was the newly wedded couple sharing the next seat, giggling on a few 'not so funny' moments and zapped with some. (How I know they were newly wedded, Lol The poor girl was decked up with all the possible signage of alliance, The Indian Bride) :p

Like they say, 'There is difference between ordinary and extraordinary, that little extra is The Indian Cinema. Some pleasantly connect to you while few others corrupt your coverage area! However, notwithstanding the true desiness at heart, Let the absurdity escalate, High 5 ;)

Mould It!

Mould it comes from an interesting talk with a sweet friend over a hot cup of tomato soup. The conversation was intense and made me think so deep! 

We are accountable for how people treat us. If I allow you to treat me casually you are bound to take me for granted, If I allow you to respect me you have no other choice but to honor. Its exactly how you want yourself to be seen and tackled. 

Many a times people just say things which are not to be voiced. However, they are not suppose to be blamed, it is because you were OK taking it. 

We can totally mould an event, an action according to our suitability, liking and preference.

In my own view I am responsible for what I say, not what one understands and derives out of it and this is only possible when I am able to mould my circumstances.

Life moves forward on a track decided and moulded by you. Mould it and Bold it ! High 5 ;) 

Forever YOUNG!

It is difficult to pen down the start of the topic. And see this is how I choose to do! ;)

Forever YOUNG is what comes to my mind right now. I always share a great rapport with people who are young at heart. I simply mean people who are lively, like to take situations easy, let go the bad, are entertaining, not pretentious and who always carry a pleasant smile along.

For me Being Young is Being Human. A young heart can do wonders, it allows you to think out of the box. This playful attitude finds and not just grabs opportunities. Life is full of challenges, stress, responsibilities, blah blah blah....So what? BRING IT ON! 

If I speak on personal grounds, I love to laugh. I love to laugh in any given situation (Yes, I mean any). I have no control over it. But this is what makes me feel young, fresh and a go getter. Whoever said it was a real great thinker, "Laughter is the best medicine." I have escaped from the ugliest and the most awkward situations by laughing, Seriously it helps :D Its childlike and raw!

Everyone has to grow up, grow old. Why not grow young? It would be so amazing to watch people growing young at the age of 65. A healthy heart, the urge to fulfill their pending dreams, cheerful lifestyle, an optimistic existence and so much more. For an interesting lifestyle one must remain young- Be young, Grow young and Die young. High 5 :) !